A standardized card for shidduchim

One card. Comparing apples
with apples.

Modest, prompt-led, comparable. JCard turns the shidduch profile into something honest enough to send and standard enough to read — with a lock on every field, in the hands of the person it’s about.

Choose your door → See how it works
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    Nine sections, in the same order — every card.
    A shidduch resume reinvents itself every time. JCard doesn’t.
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    Every field has a lock — you set it.
    Public, shadchan-only, on-interest, locked. Per field. Per recipient.
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    Free until a shidduch closes.
    Ten percent of the customary shadchanus, only at engagement. Families never pay a platform fee.
The schema

Nine sections.
Same order, every card.

A shidduch resume reinvents itself every time. JCard doesn’t. Every card carries the same spine — so a shadchan reads each one in seconds, and comparison becomes literal.

Privacy

Your card is yours.
Every field has a lock.

Decide per field, per recipient. The photo can be public for a shadchan and locked for a suitor — or anything in between. Toggle a level; the card on the recipient’s side updates instantly.

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Public
Anyone you give the link to sees it. Default for the parts of your story that aren’t intimate.
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Shadchan only
Visible to vetted shadchanim — the people whose job is to handle it with care.
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On interest
Hidden until both sides express interest. A natural unlock when things get serious.
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Locked
Not visible to anyone without a request. The field exists, but only you decide when it shows.
The side-by-side

Comparison becomes a one-axis question.

When every card has the same fields, two cards lay down on a single spine. A shadchan reads two answers at once — hashkafa here, hashkafa there, side by side, until the shape of the match is obvious.

Hashkafa · one axis, both placed Well aligned · 8 pts apart
Traditional Modern / Open
Mendy
Mimi
“Yeshiva-grounded, worldly.”
“Chassidish roots, modern outlook.”
For shadchanim

And shadchanim, meeting each other.

The Chevra is the members’ room: vetted, by referral, quiet. Share an open single, ask for a name, post a mazel, find the shadchan who has the boy for your girl. Every member is trusted by another.

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MH
ES
DM
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How it works

Free until a shidduch closes.

JCard is free to make, free to share, free to receive. We earn only when a shidduch is engaged — ten percent of the customary shadchanus.

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Families pay only the customary shadchanus

Never a platform fee. The shadchan’s cut is taken out of the gelt as it clears.

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Your data is yours, in writing

No sale. No advertising. No third-party access. Every view of your card is logged for you.

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Membership by referral

Shadchanim join Chevra only when an existing member vouches. Trust travels.

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Built with rachmonus

Designed in partnership with shadchanim, rabbanim, and singles. Shidduchim are sacred work.

Three doors

Which one are you walking through?

The same card, used three ways. Pick the door — we’ll set you up in a few minutes.

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I’m a single

Make your JCard. Tell your story in your own words, lock the parts that aren’t for everyone, share it with the people who’ll help you find your bashert.

Make my card →
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I’m a shadchan

One roster, one pipeline, one place to compare cards side-by-side. Meet other shadchanim in the Chevra. Close shidduchim with quiet dignity.

Open my desk →
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I’m a family

Read a JCard your shadchan shared with you. Express interest, ask a question, suggest a name — all without forwarding anything you shouldn’t.

Open a card →