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Thank you for trusting us with your story. We've saved the card you made this afternoon and applied four privacy defaults — photo on interest, family and references shadchan-only, profession public — so it's tznius from the moment you share.
You don't have to do anything else. When you're ready, share it with the shadchan you trust. We won't send you another email until something happens.
Open my JCard → Read the privacy model You're receiving this because you made a JCard. Settings · Delete my card · jcard.me · Iyar 5786A family has expressed interest in you through Mrs. Klein. We aren't sharing their name — that's for Mrs. Klein to do, when and if she decides it's appropriate.
No action is needed from you. Mrs. Klein will reach out if and when there is something to talk about.
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RK
A note from Mrs. Rivky Klein.
The card opens at jcard.me/m/JC-4821-0739. The link is private to you — please don't forward it without Rivky's permission. Every view is logged for Mimi.
Open the card → Reply to Rivky This link will expire in 30 days unless you express interest. How JCard handles your data · Unsubscribe from share notificationsYou made this shidduch. The Mazel Tov page is ready — private to the families and the Chevra. You can sign the wall, edit the announcement, and share it with the people who'll be honored to read it.
Shadchanus terms are arranged with both families directly. Open shadchanus · Step back from this emailRivky Klein has invited you into the Chevra. One vouch is enough; two seconds is the quiet ideal. The invitation expires in 14 days.
"I've worked with you on three shidduchim and I trust how you carry the work. You belong in the room. Come in — we'll talk about Sara Brachfeld when you're set up."
— Rivky Klein, Brooklyn · Lakewood
The annual shadchanim kinus is one week from Wednesday. R' Wallerstein's son will speak on burnout and on never closing a file. We'll do three case studies and a real dinner.
Bring one card you're stuck on. We work through three of them together at the table after dinner. No screens during the chevrusa half.
RK
A message from Mrs. Rivky Klein.
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